"To the degree we treasure (not just accept) our core gifts, we attract caring, thoughtful people who are also attracted to us. We are more attracted to people who are good for us and less interested in people that diminish us.

To the degree we distance ourselves from our gifts, we become attracted to people who are unavailable or who can't love us for who we are. We find ourselves less attracted to available people who value us for who we are."

-Ken Page, LCSW

Note: All lessons will be taught live on Zoom, recorded and then put here in the archive so you have access to them even if you are unable to make the live lesson. You're encouraged to ask any questions you have ahead of time by posting them in the Facebook group, but you can also ask questions based on the course as well as personal questions to help you apply the learning. The group is also here to support you during this course as well as to be a space for you to share your own experiences in your life and what's coming up for you during the course.

We are the gatekeepers of our own heart.

"If you want more love, why don't you say so?" -Heartbreak Warfare, John Mayer

When our relationship with ourselves is unattended, all of our relationships suffer.

Have you let in people that take care of your heart? Or have you found yourself losing yourself to relationships that leave you hurting or wanting more? It's time you learned to love your light AND your shadows. 

Course Curriculum:

Week 1: 

Introduction, Your Gift Zone, Your Core Gifts

Week 2: 

Core Gifts Continued, How to Love Yourself First, Attractions of Inspiration & Deprivation

Week 3: 

How Your Attractions Reveal Your Core Gifts, Tapping Your Deepest Roots

Week 4: 

The Seven Skills of Deeper Dating

Week 5: 

A Deeper Dating Guide to Finding Love, Taming the Great Saboteurs of Love

Week 6: 

How to Find the Light in the Middle of the Tunnel

Week 7: 

Cultivating Sexual and Romantic Attraction to People that are Good for You

Week 8: 

Being Loved into Fullness, Review 

About the Instructor:

Angela Wetzel is a professional certified life and love coach who has an additional certification as a Deeper Dating Mentor. She's had the incredible privilege of working with Ken Page, along with so many phenomenal leaders in the personal development and trauma-informed community like Mastin Kipp, Dr. Margaret Paul and Derek Rydall. She specializes in helping people of all orientations heal their love addiction and codependence and create amazing relationships with themselves that echoes out into all areas of their lives. Angela has been studying relationships for over a decade, teaches attachment theory and reparenting and regularly attends cutting edge training in the fields of relationships, neuroscience and trauma. 

What past participants have said about the course:

"Taking your Deeper Dating course is the gift that keeps on giving and I have no doubt will be on my Top 5 All Time Best Gifts I've given myself!!" - Logan W.

"My life has changed!! The other thing is, there are moments of pure brilliance and bliss to help offset the feeling of uncertainty and fear along the way...I am so thankful to be on this journey with you." - April B.

"Deeper Dating has changed the way I view myself; things I used to be embarrassed or ashamed about, I can actually say I love these things now and I know because I can see myself so much more clearly, I know that I will make better choices with who I let in." - Valerie K.

"Thanks to your course, I've actually been able to say goodbye to an ex that I had trouble cutting off. It was the hardest thing I ever had to do, but I knew that it was the right thing to do to honor myself." - Patricia P.

"Hands down one of the most life changing things I've done!!! Money well-spent!!" - Kyle R.

What people say about Deeper Dating:

“Deeper Dating presents a fresh, truer, better take on finding love. Every paragraph sparkles with some new gem of insight about how to transform the journey of seeking a soulmate into an experience of first embracing one’s true self. Ken Page’s work has touched my life deeply: he is an unparalleled, gentle, wise authority on the topic of finding love.  Required reading for all the people I know who are looking for love! ”

—Kristine Gasbarre, author of How to Love an American Man: A True Story

“Deeper Dating is a beautiful journey into deeper intimacy, an inspiring and important guidebook for everyone seeking authentic love.”

—Judith Orloff, M.D., author of The Ecstasy of Surrender

“A unique and brilliant contribution. Chock full of practical wisdom as well as tender care. Highly recommended!”

—Edward Hallowell, M.D., author of The Childhood Roots of Adult Happiness and Driven to Distraction

“If you are truly ready for big, heart-opening, lasting romantic love, this workshop-in-a book offers the proven step-by-step process. Highly recommended.”

—Arielle Ford, author of The Soulmate Secret

“Deeper Dating was a revelation for me. This enlightening book helped me to see the way we go about dating deeply influences the kind of relationship that will emerge. If you desire a soulmate, lead with your soul. So many of us come from that place of looking for that person who ‘completes’ us, but Ken helped me to see that I desire a partner who ‘reflects’ the best in me. Show your core gifts of vulnerability and authenticity and you’ll find a partner who does the same.”

—Chip Conley, author of Emotional Equations and Peak

“Seduction gurus’ beware! No more manipulations to trap a partner! Deeper Dating shows you how to attract the love of your life by discovering and being your authentic self. Finally a true roadmap to finding true love!”

—Margaret Paul, Ph.D., author/co-author of Healing Your Aloneness, Inner Bonding, Do I Have To Give Up Me To Be Loved By You?, Do I Have To Give Up Me To Be Loved By God? and co-creator of Inner Bonding.

“If you’re single and yearning to find your life partner, I highly recommend Ken’s approach, through which you can transform your dating journey. Ken is absolutely changing the dating paradigm–from a superficial, potentially demeaning and discouraging process to a powerful journey of intimacy in which you discover and share your authentic gifts.”

—Stephen Dinan, CEO, The Shift Network

Is Deeper Dating Workshop right for me?

The best thing about this course IS the group element and coaching. It allows you to interact with others and to truly know that you are not alone. It's the connection to self and others in this group that is like no other. The pure encouragement and self-discovery has been life-changing to so many students. Some of the concepts in the book have been a little challenging for the previous students to quickly and fully understand (mostly because we are so close to ourselves, it can be hard to see what's right in front of us) and the mentorship aspect is one they really appreciate and credit for the changes it help them make.

We cannot receive from others what we are not willing to give ourselves. If you are committed to knowing and honoring yourself, this course is for you. It takes you on a deep journey to learn self intimacy and to honor and respect all parts of you, not just the pretty and easy to love parts.

It's okay to be a little hesitant or feel a little bit weird to speak so openly about intimacy within a group of would-be strangers, but you have all gathered here with one mission: to open yourselves up more to love and learn more about how beautiful all the parts of you are. What we are doing is learning to stretch our nervous system's to learn to find safety with others. All of the students that have previously been enrolled have been on the self-discovery journey for some time, are deeply compassionate, wise and open. All participants are asked to keep the work sacred and to respect everyone's privacy by refraining from sharing details from the workshop outside of the course.

Frequently Asked Questions:

What if I have to miss a class?

All the classes will be recorded and uploaded into the student portal, which only the students will have access to.

What if I won't be able to make the first hour of the class, but I can come later?

The beauty of this course is that if you have to miss a portion of the class, you can drop in for the coaching portion and you can view the lesson the very same night when the replay is posted.

Is this a private group?

Yes. The Facebook Group, Zoom calls and recordings are for Deeper Dating Students only and only your specific group will have access to your group recordings. They are never shared with anyone outside the group.